agenda noun

1: a list of things to be considered or done

2: a plan or goal that guides someone’s behavior and that is often kept secret; an underlying often ideological plan or program

The first item is a legitimate usage of an agenda.

The second item can be a legitimate or an illegitimate usage of an agenda. The one part that turns it into illegitimacy is the state of secrecy of the agenda.

Now there are two facets to this secrecy: 1. Conscious secrecy 2. Subconscious secrecy

With conscious secrecy you hide your agenda from others on purpose. This is a conscious effort to deceive others.  If I were to define evil this behavior would be a part of the definition.

With subconscious secrecy you are either partially or totally unaware of your agenda. It is the part of your agenda that you are unaware of or that you have deluded yourself about that you need to uncover; the part I call your totally secret or shadow agenda. The uncovering causes you to come to a Realization of your shadow agenda.

Now you might ask yourself “How do I come to have this shadow agenda?

You make the mistake of believing your own thoughts.

After uncovering parts of your shadow agenda you might say to yourself my parents, school, or religion trained me this way; here is the thing, you can only believe your own thought.

Let me say it again “You can only believe your own thought.”

Your parents, school, or religion might have said or done things that served as a catalyst for thoughts to arise in you; but they are your own thoughts.

Here is another thing; when you were a young child and your parents, school, or religion have said or done things that served as a catalyst for thoughts to arise in you; as a young child, you believed every one of your own thoughts. As you grew older you learned to question your own thoughts and you started to not believe every one.

Think about this; your parents, school, or religion all knew they were programming you as a young child and the program was “You WILL think the way we do!” They never knew they were developing your shadow agenda.

Now you go through life as if you have headphones on listening to your shadow agenda. Wondering why you feel the way that you feel and do the things that you do. The problem is that your reactions to events happening around you are not your reactions but your parent’s, school’s, or religion’s reactions. When you don’t consciously choose your actions you default to the program that others knew they trained into you.

As a young child you were like a dry sponge for learning, you were driven by your developing mind to process everything happening around you with your senses and store the thoughts as data in your subconscious mind with all the filters of perception that your parents, school, or religion trained into you. With these cultural filters every piece of data had a value assigned to it: good or bad, beautiful or ugly, thin or fat, smart or dumb… you get the idea.

Now you developed a very large data base at a very young age, but the values applied to the data were not your values. As an adult all of these data values became your subconscious data base to which everything, that you observe now, is compared and evaluated.

As an adult you would now like all the values to the data in your subconscious data base to be values that you can believe in, but this is a vast project and if you try to change all of the data one piece at a time you do not have enough life span to finish the task. So what is one to do?

Luckily you can change large amounts of the values of data at the same time, by changing your paradigm – your way of perceiving reality. The first question to ask yourself “Is my mind open or closed?” If you want to change, your mind has to be OPEN.

If your everyday practice is OPEN to all your emotions, to all the people you meet, to all the situations you encounter, without closing down, trusting that you can do that – then that will take you are far as you can go. And then you’ll understand all the teachings that anyone has ever taught. – Pema Chodron

Being OPEN is paying attention to awareness of what is happening inside of you moment by moment; simple but not easy. This is how to discover or not create agendas that escape your conscious detection.

Another way of looking at agendas is that they are lists of file folders set up in the subconscious mind that are short cuts for the conscious mind. The conscious mind only has to open the file folder to get the subconscious mind to execute the complex agenda. Another part of this file system is that the file folders reside in a folder in the root directory of the mind, this file folder is labeled paradigm.

Your paradigm is your set of assumptions, concepts, values, and practices that have been imprinted on your subconscious mind – your way of perceiving reality. Your subconscious mind merely obeys the commands it receives from your conscious mind. Your subconscious mind is an unquestioning servant that works day and night to make your behavior fit a pattern consistent with your emotionalized thoughts, hopes, and desires (belief system).

BUT if you do not give the subconscious mind commands from your conscious mind it will make algorithms using your belief system to evaluate and store the data as it sees fit.

So what you will be changing is the whole file folder system set up in the subconscious mind. By changing the way you perceive reality you change the file folder names which include a value tag for the data stored.

Being OPEN should be a high level practice in your paradigm folder in the root directory of the mind.



The Three Nots

The Three Nots

The first NOT is a subconscious choice; an automatic internal program.

Luke_12:32 FEAR NOT, little flock; for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the KINGDOM.

FEAR   φοβέω   phobeō   (From Φόβος  phobos ) fob-eh’-o  to frighten, that is, (passively) to be alarmed; by analogy to be in awe of, that is, revere: – be (+ sore) afraid, fear (exceedingly), reverence.

Φόβος  phobos  fob’-os  From a primary φέβομαι phebomai (to be put in fear); alarm or fright: – be afraid, + exceedingly, fear, terror.

This is the source of the English word phobia; for example fear exceedingly.

Fear is a primitive emotion that we humans have and it’s used to tell us about the danger that might be around us. In the past, it was used by ancestors to keep them alive. This is accomplished because of two different types of reactions: a biochemical and an emotional response.

We have two types of fears. They are: 1. Natural fears 2. Conditioned fears

The natural ones are the ones that we are born with. If you end up going toe-to-toe with a massive lion that could potentially injure you, that’s a natural fear. Then, there are the conditioned fears, which are formed when something negative happens in the past and we become fearful of it happening again. Why does this happen? Well, it’s an irrational response to something because our brain kind of deludes us into thinking that similar circumstances will lead to the same outcome.

NOT   μή   mē   may   A primary particle of qualified negation  (adverbially) not, (conjugationally) lest; also (as interrogitive implying a negative answer); whether: – any, but, (that), X forbear, + God forbid, + lack, lest, neither, never, no (X wise in), none, nor, [can-] not, nothing, that not, un [-taken], without.


Luke 17:21 Neither shall they say, Lo here! or, lo there! for, behold, the KINGDOM of God is within you.

KINGDOM   βασιλεία   basileia   bas-il-i’-ah  (From Βασιλεύς   basileus); properly royalty, that is, (abstractly) rule, or (concretely) a realm (literally or figuratively): – kingdom, + reign.

Βασιλεύς   basileus   bas-il-yooce’   (through the notion of a foundation of power); a sovereign (abstractly, relatively or figuratively): – king.

This KINGDOM of God within is what I like to call Complete Collective Consciousness; this is the order that runs the universe.

When You Don’t Choose Love You Choose Fear

–Elisabeth Kubler-Ross & David Kessler from “Life Lessons: Two Experts on Death and Dying Teach Us About the Mysteries of Life and Living”

If we could literally reach into you and remove all your fears – every one of them – how different would your life be? Think about it. If nothing stopped you from following your dreams, your life would probably be very different. This is what the dying learn. Dying makes our worst fears come forward to be faced directly. It helps us see the different life that is possible, and in that vision, takes the rest of our fears away.

Unfortunately, by the time the fear is gone most of us are too sick or too old to do those things we would have done before, had we not been afraid. […] Thus, one lesson becomes clear: we must transcend our fears while we can still do those things we dream of.

To transcend fear though, we must move somewhere else emotionally; we must move into love.

Happiness, anxiety, joy, resentment — we have many words for the many emotions we experience in our lifetimes. But deep down, at our cores, there are only two emotions: love and fear. All positive emotions come from love, all negative emotions from fear. From love flows happiness, contentment, peace, and joy. From fear comes anger, hate, anxiety and guilt.

It’s true that there are only two primary emotions, love and fear. But it’s more accurate to say that there is only love or fear, for we cannot feel these two emotions together, at exactly the same time. They’re opposites. If we’re in fear, we are not in a place of love. When we’re in a place of love, we cannot be in a place of fear. Can you think of a time when you’ve been in both love and fear? It’s impossible.

We have to make a decision to be in one place or the other. There is no neutrality in this. If you don’t actively choose love, you will find yourself in a place of either fear or one of its component feelings. Every moment offers the choice to choose one or the other. And we must continually make these choices, especially in difficult circumstances when our commitment to love, instead of fear, is challenged.

Having chosen love, doesn’t mean you will never fear again. In fact it means that many of your fears will come up to finally be healed. This is an ongoing process. Remember that you will become fearful after you’ve chosen love, just as we become hungry after we eat. We must continually choose love in order to nourish our souls and drive away fear, just as we eat to nourish our bodies and drive away hunger.

–Elisabeth Kubler-Ross & David Kessler from “Life Lessons: Two Experts on Death and Dying Teach Us About the Mysteries of Life and Living”

I hope you are realizing that love (the antidote for fear) is a conscious choice; while fear is a natural or conditioned subconscious choice; an automatic internal program.

If you don’t consciously choose love you will automatically choose fear; it is in your program. You can decide to love but you cannot decide to fear. Every moment in your life is a reflection point; requiring a decision. You can be aware of your fear, with your heart pounding and breathing heavy, but consciously choose a response.

The second and third NOTS are conscious choices creating external behaviors. They might have their roots in fear but you choose how to express them through your behaviors.

Luke 6:37-38  JUDGE NOT, and ye shall not be judged: CONDEMN NOT, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:  Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.

JUDGE   κρίνω   krinō   kree’-no   Properly to distinguish, that is, decide (mentally or judicially); by implication to try, condemn, punish: – avenge, conclude, condemn, damn, decree, determine, esteem, judge, go to (sue at the) law, ordain, call in question, sentence to, think.

CONDEMN  καταδικάζω   katadikazō   kat-ad-ik-ad’-zo (from Κατά   kata   kat-ah’ and a derivative of Δίκη   dikē)  to adjudge against, that is, pronounce guilty: – condemn.

Κατά   kata   kat-ah’   A primary particle; (preposition) down (in place or time), in varied relations (according to the case [genitive, dative or accusative] with which it is joined): – about, according as (to), after, against, (when they were) X alone, among, and, X apart, (even, like) as (concerning, pertaining to, touching), X aside, at, before, beyond, by, to the charge of, [charita-] bly, concerning, + covered, [dai-] ly, down, every, (+ far more) exceeding, X more excellent, for, from . . . to, godly, in (-asmuch, divers, every, -to, respect of), . . . by, after the manner of, + by any means, beyond (out of) measure, X mightily, more, X natural, of (up-) on (X part), out (of every), over against, (+ your) X own, + particularly, so, through (-oughout, -oughout every), thus, (un-) to (-gether, -ward), X uttermost, where (-by), with. In composition it retains many of these applications, and frequently denotes opposition, distribution or intensity.

Δίκη   dikē   dee’-kay   right (as self-evident), that is, justice (the principle, a decision, or its execution): – judgment, punish, vengeance.

Where does the judging and condemning occur? I believe if you condense the judging and condemning to their lowest states they only occur inside you; in your KINGDOM. If judging and condemning are not a part of your KINGDOM you will not perceive them.

This is the real power of NOT! NOT means to be without. JUDGE NOT and CONDEMN NOT mean to be without the states of judging and condemning in your mind; in your KINGDOM. What you need to understand is that another person’s judging and condemning is not a reflection of you; but a reflection of the other person’s states of mind.

Judging, condemning, forgiving, and giving are all states of mind; you can always choose to change your mind and your KINGDOM.